Marriage requires Compromises & understanding of Responsibilities
In today’s, All the traditions & old rituals are becoming old Stories. In highly modern societies & In competition of show off, No body even bother to understand the different phases in different ages of life. Many of my friends & some of known youngsters (Recently married for 3-4 years) feeling too much frustration & I would say lack of senses in their married life.
Even women have become, so called advanced in today’s society, that they are least bothered about relationships ( with husband & family).
I have gone through Many Studies & Data showing the situation in Western Countries. Marriages are being broken on a rapid pace in those societies. Even I would say it has taken shape of a trend in their culture. Countries like india, those are adopting western culture, Youngsters mind is changing so that they are not understanding value of such relations.
Marriage, A bond not for this life but for Upcoming many Lives
In ancient indian culture, Marriages has been considered a pure relationship, on God’s will & considered not for existing life , but for many births ( lives). This culture was followed by all habitants irrespective of Religion. I personally feel that this culture has made people so much loyal towards their relationships & responsibilities. Value of Your soulmate was as much high in those days, understanding was brilliant, high dedication to fulfill own responsibilities towards family & loved ones. Those people were very strong morally, determined.
In today’s scinerio, youngsters are very much confused. They dont value any relation & most important even Marriages, That was once have highest social value. Both Man & Woman, consider it as their right on another one. They dont try to understand their thoughts, emotions, own responsibilities towards partner. They just split own Desires to one another. If both’s nature, desires met on a stage, then marriage goes, If they are different, Both start going on their own ways. They start showing frustration to everyone. As they take this situation to have a solution on their own conditions. Many dont get solutions & get seperated so easily without thinking about future.
Take Marriage as a Pure Relation & Understand your partner
It is about 4 years of my marriage. There are lots of differences in our views. But We have always tried to keep things between us, sort it out as soon as possible. We always share maximum to one another, try to spend maximum time together. Try to make every moment lovable & respect thoughts & views. This is what makes our married life happy. I feel blessed & i try maximum to make feel my soulmate special.
Breathing Emotions
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